Swimsuit Confidence

So this may seem like a pretty trivial thing to some people, but actually it is something, although often unspoken, we know can be a pretty big deal for lots of parents (mums and dads!).  For lots of people getting into a swimsuit, particularly just after having had a baby, can be very daunting and sometimes completely off-putting.

But here’s the thing, as someone who has spent much of my life in and around swimming pools, as a teacher, a lifeguard, and as a parent, I can tell you, NO-ONE looks like a swimwear model in real life.  The most glamorous, slender woman in everyday life, in a swimsuit, will still have jiggly bits, and bits that she’s not so confident about either, I can guarantee it.  But is that a reason not to bring your little one swimming?  You may have visions of a class full of other parents toned, buffed, muscular, but the reality is, even if that were to be the case, no-one is looking at you, nor are they looking at each other!  In our classes I can confirm that everyone is 100% focussed on their baby.  It might be a bit weird meeting new people and making friends when you’re wearing next to nothing, but everyone is in the same boat, has the same insecurities, and is absolutely only thinking about their baby and how much they want to enjoy every minute with them in the water.

As teachers we love that, often, we know no-one is truly paying attention to us, as they’re so wrapped up with their baby, and that is absolutely how it should be.  Speaking of teachers, there are no swimwear models here either, we’re all mums or dads and understand the dizzying highs and potential body lows of that, so there’s no judgement here!

So if you are concerned, please don’t be, it really doesn’t matter, you will meet some fabulous people, spend some amazing quality time with your child, and teach them a life-long skill while having fun.  If that is not a reason to drag out your swimsuit then I don’t know what is.  We talk a lot about being kind to others, but lets be kind to ourselves and get in the water, your child will thank you for it.